Family traditions are an important part of bringing everyone closer together. What better time to continue these traditions than during the holidays? And if your family doesn’t currently have any traditions, now is the perfect time to start.
Here are some suggestions for building your family’s traditions.
Keep it simple
Remember to keep it simple. Don’t have sky-high expectations for yourself or your family. Be realistic about what this tradition will look like for everyone involved.
The most important thing is to focus on your family and to bring everyone together. That way if it doesn’t go exactly as planned, you won’t feel disappointed. Nothing is perfect so don’t feel like you failed if it doesn’t turn out just like you expected.
Traditions don’t have to be over the top or expensive. You can turn any ritual your family currently does into a tradition. It can be as easy as cooking dinner as a family, or even the type of food you choose to eat as your Christmas meal. You can start a tradition by the way you open presents or decorate for the holidays.
Set yourself up for success in implementing simple new traditions rather than making them a huge, extravagant thing. Family traditions shouldn’t be based on external factors like money. They should be about creating memories with the ones you love.
Create your own
Create separate traditions than those you grew up with as a kid, or even from those relatives not in your immediate family. Start your family’s own traditions. It will help you to bond with one another and create lasting memories.
A family tradition can be anything that your family enjoys doing together. Even though they sometimes seem simple, it can make a big difference and have a positive impact on your children.
Here a few easy ideas you can start with:
- Decorate the tree or house together for the holidays
- Make dinner together as a family
- Bake and decorate holiday cookies
- Have a holiday themed movie night
- Read the kids a Christmas book before bedtime
The most important thing to remember during the holidays is to focus on the things that truly matter. Savor the moments you have together this month. Whether you are creating new traditions or continuing old ones, try and enjoy every second you have with your family this holiday season.